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Friday, June 27, 2008

Freaky Friday ~ Dealing With Crazy Neighbors

I have not done a “Freaky Friday” post in quite a while. Recently, I was invited to be a featured blogger on Wellsphere.com when they ran across my Freaky Friday ~ Will Wonders Never Cease.

The following topic is on Schizophrenia, it and other mental health disorders, are serious illnesses and should be treated. This post is not meant to make fun of anyone except for the two people mentioned in this post. You will find helpful links and articles at the end of this post.

Now, to dealing with crazy neighbors, I don’t know how we wound up with two…and I really don’t have any answers to this problem (wish that I did). My daughter has always called our neighborhood the “Twilight Zone” because of all the strange people in our neighborhood. We have had our house for about 12 years, almost from day 1 we had problems with the woman across the street. She has Schizophrenia, her main issue has been that she does not like people parking on her side of the street. I could understand this if her house faced ours but, you see she has a corner lot and our house faces hers. She has major issues with people parking on the street on the side of her house (or in front). In the past she has gone as far as calling the police on our friends and family for parking there (or, throwing eggs and putting the water sprinkler over the fence so that they cannot get into their cars). I am not talking the “non-emergency number” but 911. The police have come out I don’t know how many times and every time she tries her hardest to convince them that her property line extends 6 feet into the street. We and the entire neighborhood have dealt with her for years. Overall, she is pretty harmless other than the fact that she loves to call 911 for just about anything. Good news though finally about four years ago she started leaving us alone along with pretty much everyone else. Well, except for the second crazy neighbor.

The second crazy neighbor lives directly next to us, he too is schizophrenic. Although, he pretty much leaves us alone, we still have to put up with his antics. His main issues are with basically anyone of color (any color). When he first moved in, he had a run in with neighbor #1, over the parking issue. One day I happened to look out the window and to my surprise, I saw neighbor #1 walking across the street headed my direction. At first I thought that she was headed to our house, then I saw that she was headed to neighbor #2’s house. With her cell phone in hand (and I am sure with 911 pre-dialed on her phone) she started up his steps. The next thing that I knew, I heard neighbor #2 yelling (at the top of his lungs) at neighbor #1. I thought “oh, geeze!” what is he thinking??? So, I call 911. When the police come out they first stop at neighbor #1’s house and talk to her (by now they know the drill) then they come over to neighbor #2’s house…and what does he do? He starts yelling at the police, loud enough that I can hear him in my house over the TV. All of this was about a year and a half to, two years ago. Then out of nowhere, about six months ago he starts in on anyone and everyone of color? Yelling that he is going to kill them all, that they are all going to hell, etc. Sometimes, he even looks like he is yelling at no one? With all of this yelling and threatening, the police have not once taken him in?
Now, being a mother of a child with autism and mental health issues I know about “being a threat to yourself or others”. There has to be something that can be done about neighbor #2?
Here are some links and articles to understanding Schizophrenia:

And finally on a lighter note, a music video of the song that I think of every time things get crazy in my neighborhood. Metallica’s “Sanitarium” Welcome Home, somewhere that I think that #2 may need to spend some time. Metallica, please don’t sue me, I found this on YouTube. Not to mention I am a big fan =)


6 comments:

medical assistant said...

well the title doesnt sound good!!

Mandy said...

Medical Assistant ~ Nope, it is not much fun.

shirley said...

I use to live on another street around the corner from where I live now. I had a crazy neighbor that lived down another street that intersected with my previous street. She would get out in the middle of the street and scream at the top of her lungs very mean and degrading words to the neighborhood, even threatening to cut off certain parts of young boys' anatomy if you get my point. The cussing was disgusting. Myself and other neighbors called our local police department to come and do something about this woman. I got told repeatedly that the woman had 1st Amendment rights to say whatever she wanted. I asked the dispatcher even if the crazy woman threatened to harm children it was okay to say she was, the dispatcher said the woman was harmless. I was horrified at the police department personnel's response. I asked the dispatcher if she lived in my neighborhood. She said NO! I told her to move here and listen to this trashy mouth woman everyday and see how she liked it. I even ask the dispatcher if she had children and would like for them to be threatened everyday by a crazy woman.

If your local police officer is not doing their job, ask to have the Sargent come to your home.

Mandy said...

Shirley ~ Thanks, I am glad that you were able to move out of your crazy neighborhood.

When it was just crazy #2, it was bad but no where neer this bad. I have thought about going to talk to the other neighbor that crazy #2 has been threatening and ask if there is anything that we cand do to help. My biggest worry is that he makes the wrong person mad and then they retailiate against him. Living next door, I don't want us to get cought in the crossfire.

Exam house said...

Ask her why she does not like people parking on her side of the street.

Mandy said...

Exam House ~ She (neighbor #1) has been much better. It is more neighbor #2 that is really giving us problems now. His latest thing is that he told the police last time they came out (last week) that there is a "microphone" under his house. Now, I am not crazy but...if I thought that there was a microphone under my house...I wouldn't be yelling, I would be as quiet as possible. I found out that the police won't do anything because of some silly city policy? Anywhere else, if you yelled at the police that there was a microphone under your house they would haul you in on a psych order. Have you ever seen the movie "Pleasantville" that is where we live.

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